Community Guidelines
Au Pair Pro is a home for au pairs, made by au pairs. These simple rules keep it warm and safe for everyone.
1. Be kind
Talk to others the way you want to be talked to. We are all far from home. A friendly word goes a long way.
2. Be respectful
No bullying, name-calling, hate speech, or making fun of someone's country, language, religion, body, or accent. We all belong here.
3. No harassment
No unwanted messages, no pressure, no sexual comments, no threats. If someone asks you to stop, stop.
4. Au pairs only
This space is for J-1 au pairs and alumni. That's why we ask for your visa document and a selfie when you join — to keep the space safe. Please don't share access with others.
5. Keep it safe
Don't share private info about host families or other au pairs (address, phone, kids' names/photos). Don't post anything you wouldn't want your family to see.
6. No selling or spam
Please don't use the community to sell things, promote other apps, or send the same message everywhere.
7. If something feels wrong
Use the Block and Report buttons — they are on every profile, post, and comment. A real person on our team reviews every report. See our Safety page for more.
Breaking these rules can lead to a warning, a pause on your account, or being removed from the community. We do this to protect everyone.